Ask singles what they want in a partner, and you’ll likely hear this: “I want someone who will love me for me. I don’t want to feel like I’ve got to change or ‘measure up’ to be loved.”

Oh sure, singles will also say they are looking for someone who is thoughtful, loyal, honest, and attractive. But deep down, what most people on earth want from their lover, first and foremost, is to be accepted, appreciated, and admired for who they are—without the need for pretense or phoniness.

Even though this …

There’s a nagging feeling of dissatisfaction that won’t go away. You’ve tried to stand back and assess exactly what isn’t right in the relationship. Does this sound familiar?
“Our feelings are a feedback mechanism to us about whether we’re on track, whether we’re on course or off course.” Jack Canfield
The voices – internal and external – are loud, persistent and conflicting. “Leave him. He’s not right for you!” “Are you crazy? She’s such a great gal…how could you think about getting out of your relationship?!”
You’re at a crossroads, trying …

Should You Move in Together?
Next to marriage, moving in together is the biggest step you can take as a couple.
I don’t want to knock the romantic wind out of your sails, but making a decision like this while starry-eyed and still in the throes of the honeymoon phase is not a good idea. It’s something that you should think through and more importantly, talk through with your partner.
Here are some things to consider.
Rationale
Here’s a simple question: why are you moving in together? You might want to discuss it with your …