From the advice users to the eHarmony members, daters are sounding off on their biggest pet peeves!

Being Late
Are they passive aggressive? Forgetful? Or just disorganized? We aren’t sure what the reason is for some folk’s habitual tardiness, but it is a pesky pet peeve for many daters.
The Clueless Kisser
The date is going well and then he closes in for a kiss — a big, wet, sloppy one. Date over…for eternity! The offended did have a good suggestion: Go in slowly and softly, and graduate later to a more passionate lip …

Recently divorced singles get the cold sweats when thinking about dating again for the first time.

It’s not surprising.
Jumping back into the dating pool is a big step. The good news is that you’re not alone. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, one-half of all first marriages fail in today’s society. With all of those newly minted singles on the market, stepping out is a much easier prospect than it once was. So never fear, hitch up your britches and get back in the saddle again.
Fools Rush In
It’s important to get …

In all the years, after all the articles, these are the ten best bits of advice I’ve ever given to men who are out there dating women.

Get an Assessment from a Female Friend
Dating is one of those things that we’re supposed to be good at with no practice and no detailed feedback. We just know when it works or doesn’t. The easiest way to improve your dating skills is to take a female friend to lunch and talk her through your last date — your clothes, your venue choice, your …