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If the guys who normally make your heart go pitter-patter inevitably also fill it with pain, you’re not alone. Read on to find out how Rori Raye found the man of her dreams the way she least expected to…and how you too can pave the way for secure, lasting love.
What if your Mr. Right looks nothing like what you imagined? What if all it takes is a simple shift to find him? …

It’s all about staying in the moment but learning from the past. Here are some of our favorite dating tips ever…

The Man List
We love the idea of writing down all of the qualities you are looking for – and releasing it to the universe! Knowing what you want is a powerful thing, as is making sure your list gets narrowed down to about ten key qualities (Yes, a list of 153 is too long ladies!).
Relax
There’s something to be said about having a relaxed, carefree attitude when it comes to …

Kissing feels great, and is actually good for you on many different levels. Find out why…

Kisses that Count
Before we go into the actual benefits of kissing, it’s important to point out that being a good kisser is an essential element to these smooching stats. Avoid sloppy (and slobbering) kissing, make sure the person on the receiving end wants a kiss, and it’s got to be the right place and time. Go in gently and softly at first!
Kissing is a Stress Buster
As people kiss, the amount of the hormone we create …

Is it making him dinner? Laughing at his jokes? Ladies, it’s much simpler than that!

She Can Disagree Gracefully
During a first or second date there can be great pressure to agree on everything. The strategy is, “agree and then run for the door.” But those little differences may not mean your incompatible, and meeting someone who can disagree without being disagreeable is a fascinating experience. A woman who can say, “That’s interesting, but I have a different take on it,” is impressive. More importantly, a person who knows how to “argue” …

Frustrated with men who can’t make decisions?
by Elliott Katz, Author of Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants
He’s sensitive and tries hard to please you, but when there’s a problem to be dealt with, he’s oblivious. When you ask for his input on a decision, he says, “It’s up to you.” He wants to be nice and doesn’t understand why he’s frustrating you.

Today’s men have received so many confusing messages on what a man should be, they’re bewildered. To avoid accusations of being controlling, many men have gone to the …

We took a truck load of eHarmony men to the nearest sports bar and then talked about what makes a woman sexy!

She’s Playful
Women who take themselves too seriously are seriously not sexy. There’s something about a woman who is comfortable enough to be playful, flirty, and not worry that she is risking her reputation. Please don’t confuse playful with silly. Silly women who are clowning for attention are vexing. In fact, one man suggested that playfulness is a great sign of maturity – a woman who loves life and isn’t …

If you’re interested in meeting people and going on dates, photos need to be a part of your online dating experience. Can it be scary? You bet, but it’s the key to a successful experience. We look at the reasons it is so important to put yourself out there and the types of photos that are absolutely essential.
Whether you’re an online dating pro or a complete newbie, posting photos on your profile can be nerve wracking. After all, people are making important decisions about you based on these snapshots. If …

Don’t Underestimate the Nice Guy
For day-to-day harmony with another person, you can’t beat kindness. Find out why the nice guy will prevail in dating and relationships.
by eHarmony Staff
It was the legendary baseball manager Leo Durocher who coined the famous adage, “Nice guys finish last.”
While you may wonder whether that’s an accurate assessment in relation to sports, it’s certainly untrue when it comes to relationships. You will instantly boost your attractiveness by cultivating kindness, courteousness, and unselfishness as part of your daily behavior.
These qualities are universally attractive. In seventeen …

Saving Your Relationship
Author: Joe Bisley

Most women don’t have any idea about how to save their relationship. They see that their relationship is falling apart and their partner is becoming more distant, but they have no real idea what to do about it. All their time with their partner is spent talking about their problems and discussing what needs to be changed. If there is something that men, by their nature, detest, it is talking about their relationship problems. They do everything they can to try …