Anyone who has been in a relationship knows that it’s not easy — relationships take time and hard work. On that same note, we all know college is difficult — it, too, takes time and hard work. If we plug this simple math into an equation it looks something like this: relationships = time + work and college = time + work, therefore relationships + college = double time + double work. So, what could be more difficult than having a relationship in college? How about having a long distance …

Ask singles what they want in a partner, and you’ll likely hear this: “I want someone who will love me for me. I don’t want to feel like I’ve got to change or ‘measure up’ to be loved.”

Oh sure, singles will also say they are looking for someone who is thoughtful, loyal, honest, and attractive. But deep down, what most people on earth want from their lover, first and foremost, is to be accepted, appreciated, and admired for who they are—without the need for pretense or phoniness.

Even though this …

Valentines day is a time for sharing gifts of love. While you can go with the usual candy flowers valentine arrangements, there are some other cool gifts that will be just as appreciated by your loved one.

One Dozen Red Roses – The most popular flower gift on Valentine’s day is roses. Topping the color choices is the beautiful crimson red rose that represents love and relationships. You might also consider giving a bouquet of pink roses, or if you’re giving them to a friend, yellow is perfect. A dozen roses …

Admit it: you may be obsessed with the tawdry – and even the tame – details of celebrity couples. We live vicariously through the ups and downs of famous relationships. Under the looking glass of the public, the love lives of luminaries are on display. Yes, these popular partners are people, too, and their lives actually parallel our own, at least when it comes to love. What celeb couple does your relationship mirror the most?

Bridging the Age Gap
Several stars are romancing their elders and still going strong. Michael Douglas and …

You’ve got the best girlfriend or boyfriend and everyone says so. You’ve been dating for six months, or a year, or six years, and everyone you know is starting to drop little hints about marriage. You can see it in their eyes, too. You’re almost certain you are in love and you really like the relationship you’re in. But how do you know if you’re ready to get married? Here are some reasons NOT to get married.

1. You like the relationship the way it is.
When you get married, even if …

A relationship may start off with lots of intensity … but end in a smoldering heap. Why does this happen so often?
When Jared and Ally first met, the sparks flew like a 4th of July fireworks display. Instant attraction drew them together, and inklings of true love fueled their feelings. Mutual friends had introduced them, insisting they were perfect for each other. A match made in heaven, they had said. And it was. At least for a while.
Jared and Ally spent three blissful months going on dates, cuddling by …

There’s a nagging feeling of dissatisfaction that won’t go away. You’ve tried to stand back and assess exactly what isn’t right in the relationship. Does this sound familiar?
“Our feelings are a feedback mechanism to us about whether we’re on track, whether we’re on course or off course.” Jack Canfield
The voices – internal and external – are loud, persistent and conflicting. “Leave him. He’s not right for you!” “Are you crazy? She’s such a great gal…how could you think about getting out of your relationship?!”
You’re at a crossroads, trying …

Should You Move in Together?
Next to marriage, moving in together is the biggest step you can take as a couple.
I don’t want to knock the romantic wind out of your sails, but making a decision like this while starry-eyed and still in the throes of the honeymoon phase is not a good idea. It’s something that you should think through and more importantly, talk through with your partner.
Here are some things to consider.
Rationale
Here’s a simple question: why are you moving in together? You might want to discuss it with your …

The Hallmarks of a Healthy Relationship
Wonder what it takes to make a romantic relationship flourish? Read on.
Remember the last time you took your car in for a diagnostic check-up? Maybe your vehicle was making a strange noise, or perhaps it was for routine maintenance. The mechanic attached wires to the engine, stuck a gauge in the exhaust pipe, hoisted the vehicle on the hydraulic rack to inspect the undercarriage, and so on. The verdict: a few quick adjustments, and you’re good to go. Come back in another 10,000 miles. …

Do We Over Think Relationships?
By eHarmony
Does more knowledge on a subject always lead to better results? What about couples who have been married 50 years, 60 years and more? They came up in a time when the knowledge about healthy relationships was limited. Are they just lucky? What do you think?
The number one song of the year was “Sweet Georgia Brown”. Charlie Chaplin ruled the box office, and F. Scott Fitzgerald published “The Great Gatsby”. It was the age of Al Capone and Louis Armstrong. A first-class stamp cost $.02. …